Books

Treasure

Yesterday I posted about the benefits of reading to a child. That got me thinking about reading for your own benefit. It started something like this:

  • It’s fun
  • Keep yourself entertained, reduce boredom
  • Exercise and strengthen your brain
  • Expose yourself to your endless possibilities
  • Become a life-long learner
  • Strengthen analytic skills
  • Stress reduction
  • Improve ability to focus and concentrate
  • Widen your horizons with travel books
  • Broaden your vocabulary
  • Develop empathy by learning to understand others
  • Never run out of things to think about
  • Develop language and writing skills
  • Find answers to all kinds of questions, even those you mightn’t think of otherwise
  • Never run out of topics of conversation
  • Reading hard copy books can help you sleep
  • Reading onscreen can help keep you awake
  • Encourage others to read by example
  • Build understanding and comprehension skills
  • Develop interest in a wide variety of topics making you more interesting to others
  • Knowledge and understanding make you a valuable person in all areas of life

How many more can you think of?

Read to a child

Never too old

It’s been too long since I was around little children. There’s great pleasure in sharing your love of words, story and books, especially with children. Some of the many benefits include:

  • It’s fun
  • Calm a child down, even put them to sleep
  • Excite your own and the child’s imaginations
  • Deepen your relationship
  • Spend quality time together
  • Open up subjects which might otherwise be difficult to discuss
  • Develop physical and emotional closeness
  • Make all kinds of strange noises with impunity
  • Read wonderful, magical stories
  • Develop your skill at reading aloud
  • Exercise your brain and encourage the child to exercise theirs
  • Learn about the world and things in it
  • Teach necessary life lessons with subtlety
  • Improve vocabulary and language skills
  • Increase level of concentration
  • Develop a love of story and reading
  • Learn empathy for others
  • Practice reading skills to perfection
  • Readers learn to keep themselves amused, never bored

Books

Dream

Why do we read? There are many reasons I read. At school, I read voraciously, changing my books at the school library every couple of days, or even every day. English, American, Australian, I didn’t care where it came from. If there was a cracking story I was lost in it.

Choosing books according to my own tastes and experience, or lack thereof resulted in many gaps in my reading of classics though I’ve read many obscure and unusual books. When I discovered an author or series I enjoyed, I read everything I could find.

My nose was stuck in a book at any time I could find, day or night, whether by torch when I could use one or using the light seeping through between the door and door jamb after ‘lights out’. Countless times I remember my mother coming across me, telling me “you’ll ruin your eyes” because I was reading in the half dark.

Looking back, I was addicted to holding in my hands and mind, the dreams and fantasies of those authors. When the life I was living was, well, not to my taste shall we say, I escaped into one more palatable. There I could travel, could have a twin of my own who would share my adventures, was never lonely and could dream of what might be one day.

Every day I discovered words I’d never seen before nor heard pronounced, fascinating people and places I might one day visit, or research for my own writing. Dreams my own readers might one day hold in their hands.

 

Story

A good book

That’s not a good book, that’s the best book. When you want to read slowly because you enjoy the book so much you don’t want to end, but you also want to read fast so you can find out what happens!

The best thing is that, with a book, you can keep your friends close. Re-reading your favourite books is like revisiting that lost friend. There’s nothing like reading a new book and discovering how good it is, but reading an old friend is almost as good. Especially when you have an aging memory. Then all your best friends are new again. Probably one of the few benefits of such a memory.

 

Words

Words like x-rays

How can you write ‘words like X-rays’? Readers like to live the emotion of the story. How do you show the emotion so the reader is pierced? Feel the emotion yourself and it will shine through in your writing.

Keep some kind of conflict in each scene, Put yourself in the part of the character, act out the part, sink deep into the role and draw that emotion onto the page and show, don’t tell. How you ask? It’s easy to tell. Just tell it like it is.

I was angry. Furious. How dare she call my beautiful little girl a fat pig? She’s a gorgeous six-year-old without body image problems. Did the woman, who does have an eating disorder herself, not care about the damage she might cause?

Yes, as a reader you may be enraged by the situation. However, did you feel the rage in your body? How might that feel? What do you think about something like this:

My hand fisted at my side, ready to punch the mouth that said such a cruel thing to my beautiful daughter. A red tide of rage rose across my chest, up my throat across my cheeks and wavered before my eyes. I ground my teeth in an effort to hold my tongue, to stop myself giving her a piece of my mind before I took time to think through my response.

‘May I please speak with you privately?’ The softest voice I could muster shook as I restrained myself from adding a curse word or five in front of the children.